reprinted with permission from myBindi.com
As you may or may not know, Snoop the progressive Asian Lifestyle Magazine coming out of the UK, holds an annual online survey to pry into our minds and bedrooms and discover a little about how we really think and operate.
Here's what you ladies had to say about sex. Just a reminder that some of the results maybe a little shocking...
| QUESTION 1: What's your first attraction to a man? |
| Clothing |
 23% |
| Sense of Humour |
20% |
| Independence |
14% |
| Personality |
7% |
| Sincerity |
28% |
| Status |
8% |
| QUESTION 2: What's the sexiest part of a man? |
| Chest |
8% |
| Butt |
3% |
| Eyes |
41% |
| Stomach |
4% |
| Physique |
22% |
| Muscles |
3% |
| Privates |
1% |
| Lips |
17% |
| Legs |
0% |
| QUESTION 3: What turns you off the most? |
| Body Odour |
6% |
| Desi Accent |
19% |
| Ear Wax |
3% |
| Fat |
10% |
| Finger Nails |
8% |
| Hairyness |
25% |
| Too Skinny |
9% |
| Bad Breath |
21% |
| QUESTION 4: At what age did you lose your virginity? |
| Not Lost Yet |
33% |
| 14 |
2% |
| 15 |
4% |
| 16 |
6% |
| 17 |
8% |
| 18 |
11% |
| 19 |
11% |
| 20 |
8% |
| 21 |
9% |
| 22 |
5% |
| 23 |
0% |
| 24 |
4% |
| QUESTION 6: How many sexual partners have you had? |
| None Yet |
32% |
| 1 |
26% |
| 2 |
17% |
| 3 |
10% |
| 4-5 |
7% |
| 6-7 |
3% |
| 8-9 |
4% |
| 9-10 |
1% |
| QUESTION 7: How many sexual partners should a 25 year old man have had? |
| Should wait until marriage |
25% |
| 1-3 |
57% |
| 4-6 |
8% |
| 7-9 |
6% |
| 10+ |
0% |
| Unlimited |
4% |
| QUESTION 8: How long is your current/last partner's male member? |
| Never had a part |
6% |
| Less than 4" |
21% |
| 4"-5" |
4% |
| 6"-7" |
25% |
| 7"-8" |
25% |
| 9"+ |
5% |
| Rather not say |
14% |
| QUESTION 9: Have you ever faked an orgasm? |
| Yes |
47% |
| No |
53% |
| QUESTION 10: How much time do you/would you spend on foreplay? |
| None. I go for the kill |
3% |
| A bit of kissing (1 minute or so) |
4% |
| 5-15 Min |
35% |
| 15-30 Min |
24% |
| 30-60 Min |
15% |
| Over an hour |
2% |
| Until he begs |
10% |
| Until I get bored |
7% |
| QUESTION 11: How long does love making with your man usually last? |
| I said I'm a virgin, do you remember? |
30% |
| Less than 5 min |
2% |
| 5-15 Min |
10% |
| 15-30 Min |
19% |
| 30-60 Min |
18% |
| Over an hour |
8% |
| Quite Varied |
13% |
| QUESTION 12: Is bigger better? |
| Hell, yes |
21% |
| No |
79% |
| QUESTION 13: What is your favourite sexual position? |
| Haven't tried any yet |
28% |
| Him on top |
23% |
| You on top |
30% |
| Doggy Style |
10% |
| Side by side |
3% |
| Up against the wall |
2% |
| Other |
4% |
| QUESTION 14: Where did you meet your current/last partner? |
| Bar |
7% |
| Club |
0% |
| Family thing |
8% |
| Through friends |
37% |
| Street/Park |
1% |
| Party |
7% |
| Work |
2% |
| Internet |
11% |
| Not been out |
9% |
| Other |
17% |
| QUESTION 15: How long was it before you and your current partner first slept together? |
| First Night |
3% |
| Within a week |
4% |
| Within a month |
8% |
| 1-3 Months |
19% |
| 3-6 Months |
13% |
| 6+ Months |
19% |
| Not done it yet |
34% |
| QUESTION 16: How was your first time? |
| Amazing |
22% |
| Alright |
34% |
| Awful |
11% |
| Ain't done it yet |
33% |
| QUESTION 17: What type of contraception do you use? |
| Condom |
50% |
| Pill |
22% |
| Contraception injection |
2% |
| Morning After Pill |
1% |
| Other |
25% |
| QUESTION 18: How often do you have sex? |
| More than once daily |
3% |
| Daily |
3% |
| 2-6 times a week |
23% |
| Once a week |
19% |
| Once a month |
6% |
| Once every 2 months |
1% |
| Other |
45% |
| Haven't done it yet |
0% |
| QUESTION 19: What's the maximum number of times you've done it in a 24 hr period? |
| 1-2 |
12% |
| 3-4 |
24% |
| 5-6 |
16% |
| 7-8 |
8% |
| 9+ |
6% |
| Haven't done it yet |
33% |
| QUESTION 20: what would you NOT regard as being unfaithful to your partner? |
| Flirting |
61% |
| Phone/text/email sex |
4% |
| Kissing |
4% |
| Heavy Petting |
0% |
| One night stand |
1% |
| Affair on the side |
4% |
| None of them |
23% |
| QUESTION 21: Have you ever cheated on a present or previous partner? |
| Yes |
26%* |
| No |
74% |
* Goodness!
| QUESTION 22: Have you ever engaged in kinky sex? (cuffs, bondage, whips) |
| Yes |
26% |
| No |
74% |
| QUESTION 23: WOULD you ever engaged in kinky sex? (cuffs, bondage, whips) |
| Yes |
56% |
| No |
44% |
| QUESTION 24: What would you engage in? |
| Bondage |
6% |
| Whips |
0% |
| Role Playing |
16% |
| Anal Sex |
8% |
| Spanking |
6% |
| Golden Showers |
5% |
| Dressing up |
6% |
| Other |
9% |
| I said no! |
43% |
| QUESTION 25: Have you ever been in a threesome? |
| Yes |
7% |
| No |
93% |
| QUESTION 26: Have you ever fantasized about someone else during sex? |
| Yes |
33% |
| No |
67% |
| QUESTION 27: If yes, who did you fantasize about? |
| Friend |
8% |
| Person you know |
18% |
| Celebrity |
3% |
| Relative |
2% |
| Other |
6% |
| I don't |
64% |
| QUESTION 28: Have you ever had virtual sex? |
| Yes |
33% |
| No |
67% |
| QUESTION 29: What's the most unusual place you've ever done it? |
Some of the common responses were: the beach, drive ins, movie theatres, work, backseats of a cars, backyard, balconies, elevators, parks, public bathrooms, swimming pools, stairways, and underground parking lots. Here are some other interesting places:
| |
"a study room in Robarts (U of Toronto) library"
"a changeroom at the Gap"
"at Canada's Wonderland "indian day" concert thing"
"a Burger King Bathroom - yeah like the song"
"in an elevator at York University"
"on the hood of a truck, with the motor running,
outside in the rain"
"on the hood of his BMW in the York U parking lot"
"in a van with friends driving in the front seat"
"in a park off of Yonge Street" |
| QUESTION 30: What's the most unusual thing your partner has asked you to do? |
The most common answers were anal sex, oral sex in public and threesomes, but here are some of the more notable requests:
| |
"put vanilla pudding down there...and then let him eat it..."
"dress in a red sari , dance in the rain and sing love songs to him. which i did when we were on holiday"
"The good old 69"
"pour chocolate all over him"
"pretend to be his teacher"
"put a dildo in his bum"
"to swear profanities at him during sex'
"He asked me to shave little designs in his pubic hair"
"Masturbate in front of him"
"scream/yell his name and sexy things so that his roommate could hear us"
"pretend to be his teacher"
"Blow on his nipples-go figure"
"Record our voices while having sex"
"Stick my finger in his bum when he came"
"dress up like Demi Moore and give him a strip tease"
"up my butt....and i said noooooo way!" |
| QUESTION 31: What sexual secret do you have that would most shock your partner? |
| |
"I had sex with a complete stranger inside a men's washroom"
"He's not my first"
"I fantasize about being with a girly gal sometimes..."
"I have done it with his female friend"
"I have made an amatuer adult film"
"I like men with big fat boobs."
"I masturbate every night'
"I wanted him to get an enlargement!!!"
"the number of partners I have had"
"that i'm really horny allll the time and would love to be gettin it on like 4 or 5 times a day, if we had the time"
"I fantasize being tied up by him and then he can have his way with me all night long....... "
"I sometimes fantasize about being with two or three guys at the same time. Probably would never do it in real life, but it's definitely a huge fantasy of mine that really turns me on."
"I want a threesome with another girl" |