How to Please Her... The Basics
reprinted with permission from myBindi.com

Eight things she wants you to know, but doesn't have the guts to say (leave it to us) So you finally convinced her that you're the one, that was the easy part. Now trying pleasing her in bed. If you're serious about being her one true sex god, then listen up

...videos and thingamigigies. She is probably not interested. Most women prefer simple, sweet nothings like back rubs, champagne and bubble baths. Now, we can't speak for everyone. If you've got a wild one, then go for it!

The lingerie is for you, not for her. She'll wear it, but remember to appreciate every moment of it (the whole 5 seconds).

It bears repeating: s-l-o-w down. You turn on like a light bulb. She heats up like a kettle of water. So don't rush.

You could be turned on in a Gerrard Street Paan Shop. She needs atmosphere. Dim the lights, play some music, and light a few candles. And for god's sake, turn off the kabadi match.

Forget those golf clubs. You've got to get it right all day long. Hold hands in the morning, snuggle by the pool all day and offer her all your attention through dinner. Then, maybe, you can make your move.

She's generally aroused. So touch her everywhere, often. But also pay attention to her likes and dislikes. Focus on the likes.

She is not counting. She's not as 'goal-oriented' in bed as you are. So after all that hard work and attention, she may still not take you all the way there. Some nights its just not meant to happen so don't make a big deal out of it. But you weren't just doing it for the sex, now were you?

You have lots to look forward to. Enjoy!