Fighting
Fair
reprinted
with permission from myBindi.com
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Let's face it. Sometimes
when we fight, we fight don't fight clean.
Even during major disagreements we needn't
resort to wild and reckless attacks on our
partner! Still it's natural to fight. So
here are some ways to do it right:
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INo matter how much you hate
that pee on the toilet seat, it has nothing to
do with the topic on hand.
Yes, its tempting to bring
up the fact that she made the same mistake back
in 1991 when you still had a Gumby hair cut. But
it doesn't help.
Count to ten. Meditate.
Talk about it in one hour. Do whatever it takes
to keep your cool.
Don't call your Mom, your
best friend Babu or even your ex. In an attempt
to find an ally. It's all about you and your partner
so work it out together. In confidence.
This ain't a Bollywood flick
and you're not Hema Malini. So don't get violent,
make threats or sob uncontrollably. Pull yourself
together!
Don't fight for the sake
of a fight. Listen to one another. Look for a
solution. Agree on a settlement...
And Happy Fighting!